27 July 2015 (219 days after The Day)

I spent time today thinking about what it means to be ok with the new normal.  Time marches on.  So... if time marches on... when is grieving over?  I don't think it will ever be over.  I will always miss Jan.  I will always feel the void of her departure.  I think the beyond of this life is more than what we know ... I think all relationships matter for the eternities.  So if relationships matter - perhaps moving forward is a way to pay tribute to our loved ones.  I don't think our loved ones want us stuck in the year they left.