31 December 2019 (5 years, 12 days after The Day)

So, a few things have occurred since my last post.  Samantha and Claire both got the flu.  I knew this was inevitable but it still is tough.  With Claire having medical challenges with high fevers we are watching her closely.  The doctors say this is only for the next year or so and she will outgrow it.  That being said with a little one being sick it just is tough on everyone.  Claire is in good spirits though so that is good.  I feel bad for Samantha since 99% of all questions from the kids go to her.  I try to jump in the middle but often times I feel I am ill equipped to answer the question at hand.  Sad. Yes... sad but true.  Since getting over the flu myself it is comforting to know it will only last about a week but that was one long week for me.

Here is a pic of Claire snuggling with me while we watched a show last night.

After feeling a bit better myself after getting over the flu I embarked on a new challenge.  Making sausage.  Yes, this is something that I knew nothing about but Samantha got me a book for Christmas and I took to learn all there was on the subject.  So, after a few solid days of learning I embarked on the task and I learned some things.

1. Following recipes can make the end result really good thus making you appear like you know what you are doing. 
2. Making sausage is very messy.  I mean like meat on the floor, cabinets, smeared on the countertops, etc.  The process turned our kitchen into a slaughterhouse and it was nasty.  
3. I had to purchase some bourbon for this recipe and since I am not a drinker I know nothing about it.  This made for a comical experience in the liquor store as I didn't know what I was looking for.  I still don't know if what I got is junk or not but the end result was good so I guess it was ok.
4. Casings stink.  Seriously.  

So- AFTER the mess of this process - this is the outcome:

I threw them on the smoker yesterday and here is the final product:

They are really good.  I was shocked at how good they taste.  They definitely do not taste like ANY sausage I have ever come across in UT.  So, I will count this as a win and will probably make more after the impact of the cleaning process wears off.

I also smoked some ribs for some people in the neighborhood and played Santa delivering ribs.  It was fun.  I also smoked a turkey and at 12:30 in the morning it was finally done.  I think it is only a matter of time before I end up building a kitchen outside.  Cooking BBQ is messy but I am such a sucker for the taste.  I love it.

I have been on vacation and this week it ends after the new year.  I have enjoyed this vacation even though I spent it with lots of Tylenol as I battled the flu.  It was so good to visit with everyone and not be in the office.

Until later -   

26 December 2019 (5 years, 6 days after The Day)

I am just shocked at how good this Christmas is going.  It really is going well.  There has not been a lot of bad memories and pain.  I feel like Samantha and I are starting to blend our families and it is really good to have her family feel as my own.  

I feel like I am finally over the worst with the flu.  Outside of a bad headache and bad head cold I think I am on the mend.  My family and I got a wooden liberty puzzle for Christmas.  We get serious about puzzles and we did it in one day.  If you have never solved one and you are into puzzles, I highly recommend getting one.  They are not very cheap since they are wood but they are fun to put together.

This is the one we just finished:

If you look underneath it it looks like this

Anyway - get a puzzle and have some fun.  

Samantha and I took a minute to clean up the house.  After getting the boxes broken down from all the gift giving I have taken them to a box recycler and have a bit less clutter in the house.  

It has been snowing for the past few days but luckily it is not sticking on the roads so driving around is much easier. 

I am going to fire up the smoker and get some BBQ for the new year.  I got a book on making sausage for Christmas and I am very excited to give it a shot.  The primary reason I am excited is there is not much sausage selection here in UT.  It is a sad reality.

Well - I'm off to put Claire to bed.  Until later - 

25 December 2019 (5 years, 5 days after The Day)

So today I awoke at 3:30 am feeling awake and horrible.  I picked up my phone and thumbed through email, news, social media, games, etc.  After exhausting that form of entertainment I put my phone down, closed my eyes again, and drifted back to sleep for a few more hours.  I awoke with Samantha telling me to get up that the kids were anxious to get downstairs.  I got myself out of bed, cleaned up, and headed out to see all the kiddos waiting by the stairs.  We all went down and they tore into their stockings.  I love seeing them smile.  We then opened presents and had a good time.  I was feeling like death warmed over so I excused myself to go back to sleep afterwards.  It seemed like only a few minutes after I closed my eyes that Claire came into the room asking if I was hungry for breakfast.  I went into the kitchen to find that everyone had eaten except for Samantha and me.  She cooked french toast, sausage, bacon, and eggs.  It was definitely not healthy but man was it good.  After breakfast, I cleaned up the kitchen and then went back to bed.  Samantha woke me to ask if I was up to going to a family movie.  I got up and went to the movie.  Jumanji: The Next Level.  It was a cute movie.  I started to feel better after the movie.  We then came back home and I crashed again.  Samantha came to tell me it was time to leave for dinner with her parents.  I got myself together again and went to dinner.  This day has been nothing but sleeping and eating.  Perhaps I needed that because after we arrived back home this evening I realized that I am beginning to feel better.  I guess I just needed some sleep.  All in all - I think the kids had a good Christmas.  Samantha took time last night to decorate the tree with ornaments Jan and I had which brought out some memories for the kids.  Ammon noticed this.  I don't know if any of the other kids did.  This Christmas was the first Christmas since Jan died that I actually really enjoyed it and was not pulled down by the memories of Jan's passing.  We all miss Jan.  We miss her terribly; however, I know she is happy to see the kids smiling again.  To see me smiling again.  I realize that life gives us experiences that can help us become a better person.  I am thankful fo my kids.  All of them.  I am thankful for both Jan and Samantha.  Both have helped me be a better me.  Merry Christmas everyone.

24 December 2019 (5 years, 4 days after The Day)

Well - Merry Christmas to all.  We are in the midst of getting Christmas setup.  Ammon and I are battling the flu so this makes for a lot of alone time for us both.  Even though it has been a rough time I noticed that this Christmas was much better than past Christmas experiences since Jan died.  I think this is because I am seeing the time and effort put in by Samantha to make it all work.  Our tree is sparse but it is good.  Silly to say but even though it is a rough Christmas it will be good.  Wish this flu would go away though.

20 December 2019 (5 years after The Day)

Today was like a normal day.  I went to work.  I juggled challenges at the house.  I did just normal things.  Claire was quick to remind me today that she was now five.  I love that little girl.  While I am always filled with happiness when I think of her it is days like today that have me sad.  It seems like ages ago that Jan died yet I can recall much of that day with excruciating detail.  I suppose that is the way it will always be.  A happy and sad day.  It doesn't help that I am fighting a head cold so I am just ready for bed.  I wrote a note to Jan on Facebook and wished her a happy birthday.  Tomorrow we will celebrate Claire's birthday since today's activities after work interfered with everyone being able to join together.  Until tomorrow -